You Don’t Have to Do This Alone 💛
If you’re reading this, I want you to pause for just a moment. Take a slow, deep breath.
Divorce literally changes everything.
It isn’t just the end of a marriage. It’s those quiet moments that fill the house. It’s the empty space beside you in bed. It’s the making decisions without having someone to turn to and ask, “What do you think?” It’s the waking up and realizing that the life you imagined no longer exists in the way you planned.
That kind of change touches each and every part of you.
As a BIPOC woman, this can feel even heavier and sound even louder in our minds. There are layers to this experience that are rarely acknowledged. Layers shaped by culture, family, faith, expectations, and responsibility.
Don’t worry, I see you. 🤎
Maybe you’re juggling bills, schedules, and responsibilities that used to be shared. Maybe you’re navigating co-parenting conversations that require strength you didn’t know you needed to have or maybe you’re carrying the emotional weight of parenting on your own. And even if you don’t have children, your grief is no less real than anyone else’s.
You may be mourning the future you imagined — the traditions you thought you would build, the milestones you expected to share, the versions of the life you believed you would be living right now in real time. And the loneliness that follows can come in mountainous waves.
In many of our communities, divorce is not something openly discussed. There can be cultural expectations to uphold, our spiritual upbringing we are trying to navigate, and those family opinions that weigh heavily. Sometimes there’s an unspoken message that you should’ve endured quietly, or that choosing yourself requires explanation.
But the whole point is that you were never meant to carry this alone.
The Space I Wish More of Us Had
I created this group because I believe there is something powerful about being in a space — whether virtual or in person — where you don’t have to explain your background, your culture, or why this transition feels layered and complex.
There is relief in being understood without over-explaining. There is comfort in sitting with other women who simply get it. Divorce does not mean you failed. It means you transitioned. It means you made a choice for your well-being. It means your story is still being written.
And you deserve support as you write your next chapter.
BIPOC Women’s Empowerment After Divorce Peer Group
We meet bi-weekly on Thursdays at 7 PM (Virtual)
This peer group was intentionally created for BIPOC women navigating life after divorce. Whether you are co-parenting, single parent, child-free, fur baby parent or rebuilding independently, this space welcomes you exactly as you are.
Inside this space, we speak honestly about loneliness and the grief of what once was and chat about our identity shifts along with the emotional weight of starting over. We work on rebuilding our lives with confidence and reconnecting with the parts of ourselves that may have felt we buried deep down long ago. We support one another through real-life challenges, and we celebrate each other’s wins.
This is not a space for pretending.
It’s for truth.
For softness.
For strength.
For sisterhood.
If you are tired of holding it all together for everyone else… if you crave a place where you don’t have to be the strong one every second… if you are rebuilding your life and wondering who is walking beside you…
I am inviting you into our community.
You do not have to do life on your own anymore. 💛 Call or text 610.699.9475 to learn more or email Kalonya at [email protected] to sign up for your first group. Don’t wait, let’s start winning today!